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By Akasha Lonsdale and John
Gloster-Smith
(Published in "Stress News", January 2007, Vol
19, No. 1, from the International Stess Management
Association))
The news this summer was that the government was looking into
ways to make us happier. As the BBC programme “The Happiness
Formula” in May 2006 showed, happiness levels in Britain are
falling. In fact the proportion of people saying they are
very happy has fallen from 52% in1957 to just 36% today, despite
huge increases in income. As professionals in the Stress arena, you
will no doubt be well aware of the statistics that show
increasingly serious levels of stress being experienced by people.
So the news about happiness levels is unlikely to be a
surprise.
What research has tended to show, is that there are certain key
factors that contribute to happiness. As the major publicist
of Positive Psychology, Dr. Martin Seligman of the University of
Pennsylvania has determined that three components stand out:
pleasure (the “smiley-face piece”), engagement (the depth of
involvement with family, work, romance and hobbies) and meaning
(using personal strengths to serve some larger end). Seligman says
that engagement and meaning are particularly important. Other
researchers have pointed to bondedness with friends, family and
loved ones as a major contributor.
So, if we look at laughter as one manifestation of happiness, it
turns out that it’s not something we tend to do alone. “It is
a tool of communication” says Robert Provine of the University of
Maryland. Also laughter is infectious, once one person
starts, others quickly follow (very difficult if someone gets the
giggles in the middle of something that’s meant to be deadly
serious.) When we laugh with others, we feel more connected
to them – it’s part of our bonding.
But what has been happening to laughter and why is it so
important? What does laughter have to tell us about our happiness –
and our wellbeing?
Well, laughter is generally considered to be an essential
behaviour of a happy, joyful person whilst lack of laughter
contributes to anxiety, depression, and illness. In today’s
society, as with happiness in general, we seem to have forgotten
how to laugh. Dr. Michael Titze, a German psychologist tells us
that,
- In the 1950’s people used to laugh 18 minutes a day, but today
we laugh not more than 6 minutes a day, despite the huge rise in
the standard of living
- Children can laugh up to 300-400 times a day, but when we grow
up to be adults this frequency comes down to less than 15 times a
day, if at all.
So why has laughter declined? The answers will not surprise
you. Here’s a few reminders. First there’s the stress of
living in a fast world, which is increasingly dominated by anxiety
and fear. Telecommunications have made bad news instantly
accessible to millions, thus accentuating the anxiety and fear.
People are working long hours, under pressure to move fast.
Transport is congested. Cities are crowded. Divorce and family
break-ups are high. So negative stress levels are constantly
on the increase.
Many people live in the past, feeling guilty or resentful whilst
others worry about the future. Often the cause of perceived
difficulties is attributed to something or someone else. So
we don’t take true responsibility and find it hard to live in the
moment – which of course is where laughter occurs.
Happiness is perceived as conditional on external factors and
becomes part of the “more, bigger, better” syndrome and the pursuit
of certain things in order to be happy, which if successful results
in a cycle of immediate fulfilment followed by dissatisfaction and
a renewed wanting that leaves a lingering feeling of “what I have
is not enough”. This becomes a repetitive feeling that “I
have not got what I want, something is still missing. If only
I could…..or …..when I ……..”. Addiction to desire is seen as
one of the most fundamental barriers to human contentment and is
all-pervasive in today’s society.
Laughter is seen as dependent on a “sense of humour”: we believe
we must have a reason to laugh, that laughter is about laughing
“at” something or somebody else, that it only happens on certain
occasions and that it depends on “one’s sense of humour” ie. it is
dependent on external stimuli or a belief you have about your
personality.
However, major hope is now available. As a result of research in
both East and West, people are increasingly realising that laughter
is something that can be spontaneously created and need not be
dependent on anything. In fact you can laugh for no reason at all.
Authentic laughter is an energy that wells up from within. It is
something that occurs spontaneously, without a reason, resulting in
the experience often called joyfulness.
People might have lost it but it is perfectly possible to help
them get it back. People can be taught to laugh for no reason, to
discover their own innate capacity to experience their own
well-spring of laughter and joy. You do not have to be happy or
have a “sense of humour” or even have a reason to laugh. You do not
have to be constrained by your social conditioning.
We are talking here about a simple technique that has proved so
powerful that it has become a world-wide phenomenon, after being
introduced in India by a medical doctor, Dr. Madan Kataria, to help
people manage the stress of life in Mumbai. Dr. Kataria was
so concerned about this issue that one day he went out into a park
and asked as many people as he could to join him in an instant
laughter club. Eventually he managed to persuade 4 people to join
him. As others watched in initial bemusement, they took it in turns
to tell jokes. As we have seen, laughter is infectious. Others
started to join and soon he had 50 people in his club.
Unfortunately they ran out of jokes after two weeks and then two
women complained because the humour had become sexist and rude. To
rescue his new idea, and this was the crucial breakthrough, Dr
Kataria turned to the idea of laughter exercises to help people to
fake laughter, to “fake it till you make it”. That worked a
treat! He also turned to his wife, a yoga teacher, and
borrowed from yoga some of its deep breathing, which he adapted to
simple breathing exercises to support people’s ability to sustain
the laughter beneficially. Laughter Yoga was born, his club
recovered and soon the park was attracting large numbers to
pre-work laughter sessions. It proved so popular that it spread,
first all round India and now across the globe.
Why has this been so successful? First and foremost because it
is so easy: anybody can do it. Such a laughter training technique
belongs to all and has no hidden agenda. It is not at anybody’s
expense. It is socially and emotionally safe. And, very
importantly, it is the doing of it that is beneficial. No thinking
is required. It is the thinking part of the brain that holds the
beliefs we described above that are limiting our natural laughter.
Laughter bypasses this thinking left part of our brain, tapping
into our right-brain functions. Here lie our child-like qualities;
it’s where we are spontaneous and fun, creative and intuitive.
The practical exercises, which are simple physical techniques,
are aimed at contacting this natural fun side, largely through
“acting silliness”. Also, as we said earlier, laughter is
infectious and as the natural laughter mechanism kicks in, fake
laughter becomes real laughter. Finally, as it also makes use
of a simple breathing technique, it is a highly effective form of
aerobic exercise that makes you feel good. We see it all the time
in the bright smiles, flushed faces and shining eyes of
participants after a laughter session.
So why is laughter truly the best medicine?
Well, it is scientifically proven that, even if you pretend to
laugh or act happy, your body produces “happiness” chemicals. Our
bodies do not know the difference between thinking about doing
something and actually doing it. Whatever the source of
laughter, it leads to the same set of physiological changes in the
body. Laughter generates the release of positive chemicals,
which
- Enrich the blood with plentiful supplies of oxygen
- Boost the immune system and bring relaxation
- Counteract harmful stress chemicals
- Release endorphins, the body’s pain-killer hormone, and give a
sense of well-being
- Counteract depression, anxiety and psychosomatic problems
- Ensure good sleep
- Bring a happy glow to your face and make your eyes
shine
This is supported by the research of 19th Century French
physiologist, Duchene, who found that a “real” smile (when the lips
part and turn up and the muscles contract around the eyes to create
crow’s feet), involuntarily sends a signal of genuine joy to the
brain of the person smiling. So even an induced “real” smile
can uplift your mood. (Try it now. How do you
feel?). And of course when we experience a “real” smile from
someone else, we tend to automatically smile back, even if we don’t
know the person.
In the 1970’s, it was Norman Cousins, author of “The Anatomy of
an Illness” who found that a large part of what cured him of a
potentially fatal illness, was watching funny films. This sparked
serious scientific interest. Subsequently Dr William Fry of
Stanford University, California, showed that laughter stimulated
the heart rate, provided good cardio-vascular exercise and
decreased the chances of respiratory infections whilst Dr Lee Berk
of Loma Linda University Medical Centre, California, proved that
laughter produced fewer arrhythmias, lowered blood pressure,
lowered the levels of stress hormones, (particularly cortisol),
reduced the need for medication and ultimately resulted in fewer
heart attacks. Laughter has been so beneficial
physiologically, that it’s sometimes called “internal jogging”.
But the physiological benefits are mirrored by psychological
benefits. Illness also has its psychological causes. Happier people
tend to have fewer illnesses. Researchers have found that happiness
or related states like hopefulness, optimism and contentment appear
to reduce the risk or limit the severity of cardiovascular disease,
pulmonary disease, diabetes, hypertension, colds and
upper-respiratory infections. People who struggle with life are
often more predisposed to these illnesses. According to a Dutch
study of elderly patients published in 2004, those upbeat mental
states referred to above reduced an individual’s risk of death by
50% over a 9 year period. Also, doctors have known for years that
clinical depression can worsen heart disease.
Laughter, however, makes it easier to handle life and its
challenges, because it puts us intensely “in the moment”, and it’s
when we are in the moment, that we are not aware of our problems.
It’s as if we literally drop them. Can you remember a time when
you’ve laughed and things have somehow seemed different? We
even say we’ve “laughed it off”. Laughter puts us at ease: people
who laugh, worry less than those who don’t.
It helps us handle challenges because it relaxes us and gives us
a better perspective: a period of laughter gives us the opportunity
to look at things differently and defuses painful emotions. With
practice, it develops joyfulness so that this precious experience
is more present in everyday life. By acting silliness in
groups and having a great laugh about it, we build self-confidence
which helps us drop our inhibitions. As said earlier, it also helps
communication because laughter is an important social skill that
keeps communication fun. It develops our innate sense of humour,
helps us find more laughter in our lives and thus changes our
perception of who we are for the better. What a simple gift we’ve
got – if only we used it more!
So laughter training has widespread application. It has been
successfully used in corporate environments for team building,
stress management, communication, employee engagement, innovation
and creativity. It has been provided for seniors, children,
parents, in relationship training, in tourism, with cancer
self-help groups, associations dealing with depression, and in
hospitals and other medical settings.
If we take corporate environments in more detail, it has been
found that the use of laughter has a positive effect in reducing
stress, which as you know is the number one cause of absenteeism.
Also it is a major communication enhancer. It reduces the sense of
conflict since it is hard to be in conflict with someone you are
laughing with. It creates a sense of safety and people feel more
open. It stimulates fun and we become fun to be with. We become
more likeable. Criticism seems to collapse. Barriers are broken
down and a sense of bondedness is created. People feel more
self-confident.
Laughter is therefore not surprisingly used as part of team
building and to foster creativity and innovation in teams. Laughter
connects people. People who laugh together, work better together.
Companies that want to improve EQ in their managers have found that
the use of laughter has helped create better emotional balance. As
laughter is a right-brain activity, it stimulates the creation of
new ideas, especially through play. Finally it has a part to play
in peak performance because it increases the supply of oxygen to
the brain. As Dr Otto Warburgh, the 2 times Nobel Prize winner
found, the lack of oxygen was the root cause of illness. Laughter
raises the oxygen supply to the body, enhancing its functions.
So without doubt, laughter has a major role to play in the
unfolding of our potential. If we want to boost our happiness
levels, we can start by laughing - just for the sheer joy of it.
Participants in our laughter training find that when they learn to
laugh for no good reason, they tap into a power that’s always been
there but couldn’t always be accessed. Through this they
boost their bondedness with others and find that laughing together
brings them together. They feel more engaged, more positive, more
enthusiastic and more able to create a meaningful life in every
way. As we said earlier, what an amazing gift - enjoy
it and learn to live life laughing.
References:
Here is a very small selection of the very extensive sources on
laughter research and some more general reading and on-line sources
on the subject:
Norman Cousins: Anatomy of an Illness (Bantam); first published
1979.
Fry, W.F. (1992) The physiologic effects of humor, mirth, and
laughter. Journal of the American Medical Association, 267(13),
1857-1858.
Berk, L.S., Tan, S.A., Fry, W.F., Napier, B.J., Lee, J.W.,
Hubbard, R.W., Lewis, J.E., and Eby, W.C. (1989) Neuroendrocrine
and stress hormone changes during mirthful laughter. American
Journal of the Medical Sciences, 298(6), 390-396.
Berk, L. and Tan, S. (1989) Eustress of mirthful laughter modifies
natural killer cell activity. Clinical Research, 37, 115.
In a study Berk and his colleagues presented at the 4th
International Conference on Preventive Cardiology in 1997, 24
cardiac rehabilitation patients who watched a 30-minute funny video
each day for a year had fewer heart attacks than 24 cardiac
patients who did not watch such videos. In the video-watching
group, only two had subsequent heart attacks, compared to 10 in the
other group.
See summary of Berk’s findings on health benefits taken from an
article in Humor and Health Journal 1996 at: http://www.holisticonline.com/Humor_Therapy/humor_therapy_benefits.htm
Dr Madan Kataria, Laugh for no good reason (Madhuri International,
Mumbai, 1999 & 2002)
See the career of Patch Adams who as an unconventional doctor has
championed the cause of humour in healing: it was the subject of a
film starring Robin Williams (http://www.patchadams.org/home.htm)
Dr Robert Fried, Breath Connection, Insight Books, 1990
Dr Robert Provine, Laughter, a scientific investigation, US 2000
(Viking Press)
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